by Marnix Pauwels | Jan 27, 2022 | Addiction, Awakening, Coaching, English, Insights, Personal, Purpose and Meaning, Spirituality, Typically Me
When I meet people for the first time during an explorative session, I often ask a question like: ‘What would it be worth to you if the pile of problems and challenges you just described wasn’t a problem anymore?’ They’ve told me how miserable...
by Marnix Pauwels | Jan 24, 2022 | Addiction, Anxiety, Awakening, Coaching, English, Entrepreneurship, Insights, Love, Parenting, Personal, Purpose and Meaning, Relationships, Spirituality, Typically Me
Well, it’s not that you REALLY need one. But it’s pretty fucking helpful. Let me tell you why. Let’s suppose you want to change your life, okay? I know you’ve tried the normal stuff. The logical things. The therapy, the self-help, the stuff...
by Marnix Pauwels | Jan 24, 2022 | Addiction, Anxiety, Awakening, English, Insights, Personal, Purpose and Meaning, Spirituality, Typically Me
If you drink too much, JUST quit. If you are depressed, JUST realize you are caught up in rumination. If you’re always worrying, JUST remember that it’s not really helpful. If you want to change things, JUST do it. JUST. Justjustjust. Yeah. The word that is also...
by Marnix Pauwels | Jan 24, 2022 | Addiction, Anxiety, Awakening, English, Insights, Love, Personal, Purpose and Meaning, Spirituality, Typically Me
Zooming out. And zooming out some more. There’s the old addicted me. The old pitiful whining winer. Bye! Zooming out. Zooming out more. There’s the ‘life is against me, it’s so unfair!’ guy. There’s the smallness. The tightness. The darkness. Zooming out, zoooooooming...
by Marnix Pauwels | Jan 23, 2022 | Addiction, Anxiety, Awakening, Coaching, English, Insights, Personal, Purpose and Meaning, Spirituality, Typically Me
Addictions can ruin your life. They can turn you into a mindless monster, even. But they are not a problem. Or THE problem. Addictions are a fairly helpful solution to something deeper, and that is your unwillingness to be with discomfort. Really happy and fulfilled...
by Marnix Pauwels | Jan 15, 2022 | Addiction, Anxiety, Awakening, Coaching, English, Insights, Love, Personal, Purpose and Meaning, Spirituality, Typically Me, Uncategorized
It’s extremely helpful to get to know your moods. It means the difference between automatically falling for them and being swallowed by them, or becoming aware of what’s going on and keep a bit of distance. When I say ‘moods’ I guess I mean every single...
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