by Marnix Pauwels | apr 23, 2021 | Addiction, Awakening, Coaching, English, Insights, Personal, Purpose and Meaning, Spirituality
So what if you don’t know when you’re talking to a person and you have no answer to their question no solution for their problem no quick fix for their ache but you take the not knowing and see the potential and trust that it will turn into the answer to their...
by Marnix Pauwels | apr 23, 2021 | Addiction, Awakening, English, Insights, Personal, Purpose and Meaning, Spirituality, Typically Me
‘Yeah but that’s easier said than done.’ Don’t say it. Just don’t. Because it will fuck you up and make you feel lost and powerless. And even it is true (for changing things can be absolutely challenging and painful and difficult and time-consuming), it is just not...
by Marnix Pauwels | apr 18, 2021 | Addiction, Awakening, Coaching, English, Insights, Personal, Purpose and Meaning, Spirituality
Ah, yes. The Ultimate Way of Coaching. Well (spoiler alert): there’s no such thing. No specific way. No method. No magic trick. The ONLY thing that matters, is that your intervention helps people change their lives in a profound, positive way. The content of that is...
by Marnix Pauwels | apr 11, 2021 | Addiction, Awakening, Coaching, English, Insights, Personal, Purpose and Meaning, Spirituality
When you drink because you drink. When you drink because you don’t want to drink, because you want to quit and clean up your act, but you just don’t know how. When the brain starts to get used to the habit, becomes a fan, and conspires against you, creating the...
by Marnix Pauwels | mrt 25, 2021 | Addiction, Awakening, English, Insights, Personal, Purpose and Meaning, Spirituality
Let me take away your mental disorder. ADHD and anxiety and all these other terms that are used for ‘mental illnesses’ are not real. They are not things. And they are most certainly not the bad things that cause the symptoms. These labels are invented so we can...
by Marnix Pauwels | mrt 20, 2021 | Addiction, Awakening, English, Insights, Personal, Purpose and Meaning, Spirituality
There’s always a reason to feel guilty. You feel too good. Or too bad. Or worse than you should. Maybe somewhere in between. Or you don’t feel anything at all. And you blame yourself for all of it. I know I did. One of my biggest guilt trips was around ‘feeling...
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