{"id":47901,"date":"2022-09-19T17:10:16","date_gmt":"2022-09-19T17:10:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/?p=47901"},"modified":"2022-09-19T17:11:18","modified_gmt":"2022-09-19T17:11:18","slug":"its-not-personal-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/2022\/09\/19\/its-not-personal-2\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s not personal."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>How can you know<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>for sure<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>that the voice in your head<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>is not personal?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The one that sounds like<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t have done this<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re not getting any younger<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You should know better<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You have to change this<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve this<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can\u2019t do it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You should try harder<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&#8217;ll be a failure<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You made the wrong decision<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019d better lower the bar<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You are a worthless piece of shit<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You are shy\/fat\/incapable\/weak\/stupid\/boring\/ugly\/unlovable<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You should just give up, or<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why did you give up?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, you can know<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>for sure<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>because the voice I hear<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>tells me the exact same things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So how personal can it be?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Photo by @gabriellefaithhenderson, for Unsplash)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How can you know for sure that the voice in your head is not personal? The one that sounds like You shouldn\u2019t have done this You\u2019re not getting any younger You should know better You have to change this You don\u2019t deserve this You can\u2019t do it You should try harder You&#8217;ll be a failure [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":47902,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":""},"categories":[99,102,97,117,100,116,113,107,103,112],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47901"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47901"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47901\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":47904,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47901\/revisions\/47904"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47902"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47901"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47901"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47901"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}