{"id":47717,"date":"2022-08-17T12:31:18","date_gmt":"2022-08-17T12:31:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/?p=47717"},"modified":"2022-08-17T12:31:23","modified_gmt":"2022-08-17T12:31:23","slug":"always-winning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/2022\/08\/17\/always-winning\/","title":{"rendered":"Always winning."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u2018So it\u2019s actually REALLY simple!\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I love that one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just like<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018Why don\u2019t we all know this, why isn\u2019t this taught at schools?!\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I love how these profound, life-changing insights are possible and magical and powerful, and I love how I enjoy being involved in exploring that stuff, over and over again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are so many people I talk to who are lost and confused, who\u2019ve tried everything out there and are totally convinced they\u2019ll never have a life with freedom and joy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Boy, if only they knew.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And they will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s where the conversations come in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s also why I know, from experience, they\u2019ll be fine, better than fine even, almost always.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For me, it\u2019s like playing for the winning team, the team that is ALWAYS victorious, which means I can get on the field without restrictions, no borders, and no holding back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s no way I can lose, so it doesn\u2019t really matter what I do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Being backed up by a power of this magnitude makes my job incredibly cool.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Feeling this amount of trust crushes the tension and confusion of personal responsibility and opens up a whole world of sweet wisdom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After years of coaching, I\u2019ve probably heard all the objections that the mind is capable of inventing, all the critical notions, all the disbelief, and solid conceptions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I love that too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I love it when a client gets in position, with the intellect at full speed, and starts attacking me with logic and facts and truths and complicated questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018Yeah, sure, but how about\u2026 and what if\u2026 and isn\u2019t it so that\u2026.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So much fun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, the goal is that everybody wins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For me, it\u2019s simple, because that’s already the case, and for the client this will merely be the effect of playing the game we engage in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We just have to play it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And we can\u2019t lose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if the rules of the game change every second.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if the client has been hiding behind a thick wall of intellectual bricks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eventually, that thing will start to crumble.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

People will start mellowing out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And they\u2019ll know, when they know, that what we’ve been talking about and what I\u2019ve been pointing out to them, has always been true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I love that too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

—<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Photo by @elintabitha, for Unsplash)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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