{"id":47500,"date":"2022-07-24T16:30:55","date_gmt":"2022-07-24T16:30:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/?p=47500"},"modified":"2022-07-24T16:31:00","modified_gmt":"2022-07-24T16:31:00","slug":"pulled-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/2022\/07\/24\/pulled-away\/","title":{"rendered":"Pulled away."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Maybe you know this one (I guess so).<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You’re just living your life, lalala, doing whatever you’re doing, when this really specific thought strikes you:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

‘People don’t appreciate me.’<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You didn’t ask for it, you’re not really up for an exploration in that direction, but you have no problem automatically claiming this remark like it’s one of your best creations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now it’s personal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And here comes the next one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

‘Oh no, I can’t think that, because if I do it’ll become a self-fulfilling prophecy!’<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And off you go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Years of frightening, punishing thoughts mixed with a residue of manifestation instructions, now start to freak you out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And since you just thought it, since it came up in your awareness, the universe will now do everything in its power to make it a reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your shitty, useless vibration will cause a whole new flow of shitty situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

More and more, people will stop appreciating you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And this is only the beginning of a nasty downward spiral where eventually you’ll be on your own, barely living under a bridge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sounds familiar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course it does.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fuck it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And for what it’s worth:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I appreciate you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

—<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Photo by @_imd, for Unsplash)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Maybe you know this one (I guess so). You’re just living your life, lalala, doing whatever you’re doing, when this really specific thought strikes you: ‘People don’t appreciate me.’ You didn’t ask for it, you’re not really up for an exploration in that direction, but you have no problem automatically claiming this remark like it’s […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":47501,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":""},"categories":[102,97,117,100,116,113,107,103,112],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47500"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47500"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47500\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":47502,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47500\/revisions\/47502"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47501"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47500"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47500"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47500"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}