{"id":47124,"date":"2022-06-15T20:10:04","date_gmt":"2022-06-15T20:10:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/?p=47124"},"modified":"2022-06-15T21:20:01","modified_gmt":"2022-06-15T21:20:01","slug":"its-not-the-past","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/2022\/06\/15\/its-not-the-past\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s not the past."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>No.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Really, no.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don\u2019t need to find out what happened 23, 36, or 52 years ago, that specific thing that apparently prevents you from being happy right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s not how this works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because: so what?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What changes when you remember it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you think a lifetime of habits will be magically wiped away?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe the past is the key to the future?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The problem you have right now, is right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not decades ago.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not even yesterday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don\u2019t have to search and investigate and explore and crawl your way through eons of shit, hoping to find the gateway to peace of mind and joy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your pain, your confusion, is now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So you\u2019re looking for a solution that is now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What you need to remember, is how to feel good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not why you feel bad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Photo by @raphiella, for Unsplash)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. Really, no. You don\u2019t need to find out what happened 23, 36, or 52 years ago, that specific thing that apparently prevents you from being happy right now. That\u2019s not how this works. Because: so what? What changes when you remember it? Do you think a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":47125,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":""},"categories":[99,102,97,96,117,100,116,113,107,103,112],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47124"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47124"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47124\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":47127,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47124\/revisions\/47127"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47125"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47124"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47124"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47124"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}