{"id":46785,"date":"2022-05-17T17:03:55","date_gmt":"2022-05-17T17:03:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/?p=46785"},"modified":"2022-05-17T17:15:40","modified_gmt":"2022-05-17T17:15:40","slug":"dreaming-the-world","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/2022\/05\/17\/dreaming-the-world\/","title":{"rendered":"Dreaming the world."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Fantasy allows us to see and feel stuff that is not currently here.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

We can daydream, project, and imagine non-existing situations until they\u2019re (almost) real and present.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tropical island?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Check.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Little b&b on a picturesque Portuguese mountaintop, goat included?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sitting in a Ferrari, slowly driving the Saint-Tropez boulevard?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There we go!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We can create moments, people, feelings, and sensations without leaving our couch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We can escape winter, marriage, and even addiction, and be somewhere and someone else for a little while.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And we can call that inspiration, or disappointment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s one of those things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We don\u2019t really think it\u2019s a big deal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s gigantic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In fact: it\u2019s the ONLY deal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not just as a rich and deeply engaging ability, but mostly because of the implications it has for when we\u2019re not daydreaming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or don’t know we are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Our talent, our unique capability, to create almost any circumstance vividly and completely, is actually what we consider to be life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We never NOT do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is how the world is created.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every second of our life is produced by the same amazing experience factory.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Our relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Our feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Our careers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Holidays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prison.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Failure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Worry and fear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Relief and excitement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Craving and fulfillment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All of those things may not look like daydreams or products of our imagination, but they are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They are aspects of life, they ARE life, and they consist within our story, our experience, our existence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They come alive within us, just like our dreams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is not just a big thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is EVERY thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Experience, no matter what it\u2019s about and how it feels, is this magical system at play.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rich.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Engaging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Realistic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And always churning out new stuff in a seemingly uninterrupted way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Life IS a daydream.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And sometimes there\u2019s a goat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

—<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Photo by @norestinthewildk, for Unsplash)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Fantasy allows us to see and feel stuff that is not currently here. We can daydream, project, and imagine non-existing situations until they\u2019re (almost) real and present. Tropical island? Check. Little b&b on a picturesque Portuguese mountaintop, goat included? No problem. Sitting in a Ferrari, slowly driving the Saint-Tropez boulevard? There we go! We can […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":46786,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[97,117,100,105,116,113,107,103,112],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46785","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-wakkerworden","category-english","category-inzichten","category-liefde","category-persoonlijk","category-zingeving","category-relaties","category-spiritualiteit","category-eigenwijs"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46785","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46785"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46785\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":46788,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46785\/revisions\/46788"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/46786"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46785"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46785"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46785"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}