{"id":46511,"date":"2022-04-10T16:19:40","date_gmt":"2022-04-10T16:19:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/?p=46511"},"modified":"2022-04-10T16:19:43","modified_gmt":"2022-04-10T16:19:43","slug":"the-hurt-layer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/2022\/04\/10\/the-hurt-layer\/","title":{"rendered":"The Hurt Layer."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>All of our misery.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All suffering.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All resistance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s in the Hurt Layer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The cunning creator of Lack, Loss, and Lies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Master of Suffering.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s the analyzing, judging, comparing voice that creates all the agony, the distress, the anxiety, and depression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Without that commanding commentary, there\u2019s just what is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Frustration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sadness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pleasure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sensations that come and go, uninvited, but harmless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not a big deal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But then there\u2019s the Hurt Layer, dominating in the background.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It won\u2019t let go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It claims, explains, and predicts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018This shouldn\u2019t happen right now.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018What if this never ends?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018You should have done something differently.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Why me?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018They weren\u2019t supposed to treat me like this.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Why now?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018This will not end well.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018This is just too good to be true.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018It\u2019s not enough.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018It\u2019s way too much.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Why doesn\u2019t it stop?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Yeah, let\u2019s worry some more!\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018When will it happen?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Hurt Layer is a distrusting, cynical storyteller.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Always waiting for things to go wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Always telling you to be careful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Always holding you back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It doesn\u2019t let go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It can\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But you can.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Photo by @allecgomes, for Unsplash)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All of our misery. All suffering. All resistance. It\u2019s in the Hurt Layer. The cunning creator of Lack, Loss, and Lies. The Master of Suffering. It\u2019s the analyzing, judging, comparing voice that creates all the agony, the distress, the anxiety, and depression. Without that commanding commentary, there\u2019s just what is. Pain. Frustration. Sadness. Anger. Pleasure. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":46512,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":""},"categories":[99,102,97,117,100,116,113,103,112],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46511"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46511"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46511\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":46513,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46511\/revisions\/46513"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/46512"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}