{"id":46224,"date":"2022-02-07T13:45:29","date_gmt":"2022-02-07T13:45:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/?p=46224"},"modified":"2022-02-07T13:45:32","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T13:45:32","slug":"sticky-thinking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/2022\/02\/07\/sticky-thinking\/","title":{"rendered":"Sticky thinking."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>If we know that what other people think or say about us is not really about us, why do we care so much?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why isn\u2019t that a helpful notion?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why is it still so painful?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or important?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I guess it\u2019s because we still believe that what WE think about other people is true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The asshole really is an asshole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The shy person is 100% shy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s a funny guy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And she\u2019s an arrogant bitch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We keep the system going.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Innocently, of course.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Until we don\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oh man, this life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Photo by @_marcotesti, for Unsplash)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If we know that what other people think or say about us is not really about us, why do we care so much? Why isn\u2019t that a helpful notion? Why is it still so painful? Or important? Well. I guess it\u2019s because we still believe that what WE think about other people is true. The [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":46225,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":""},"categories":[97,117,100,116,113,107,103,112],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46224"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46224"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46224\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":46226,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46224\/revisions\/46226"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/46225"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46224"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46224"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46224"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}