{"id":34812,"date":"2021-10-29T12:31:35","date_gmt":"2021-10-29T12:31:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/?p=34812"},"modified":"2021-10-29T12:32:17","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T12:32:17","slug":"the-pain-of-not-being-in-a-forest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/2021\/10\/29\/the-pain-of-not-being-in-a-forest\/","title":{"rendered":"The pain of not being in a forest."},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>My mind wants to be in a forest.<\/h3>\n<p>I am actually sitting in my bed so it\u2019s obviously the wrong place.<\/p>\n<p>According to my mind.<\/p>\n<p>It quickly informs my body that this is definitely not ideal, that there\u2019s a discrepancy between This Now and the perfect That Now, and my body obediently follows.<\/p>\n<p>One minute ago I was fine.<\/p>\n<p>Now I feel like shit.<\/p>\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n<p>Is it because I should be in a forest?<\/p>\n<p>Would the forest magically take away the shitty feeling?<\/p>\n<p>Is the shitty feeling caused by the lack of trees in my bedroom?<\/p>\n<p>No, no, and no.<\/p>\n<p>But my mind doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n<p>It wants to be in the forest, so it creates the discomfort to prove its wisdom.<\/p>\n<p>I know this game too well.<\/p>\n<p>The only (and truly HUGE) reason I would fall for it is that I don\u2019t want to feel uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>And listening to the mind and following its directions seems to be the solution.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not.<\/p>\n<p>Only the mind can be dissatisfied with where you are, and that is almost always the case.<\/p>\n<p>While Being never is.<\/p>\n<p>The Being that is always there, but hardly ever recognized.<\/p>\n<p>Being doesn\u2019t give a shit about forests or luxury hotels or cute little farms on the top of a hill in Tuscany.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s always content.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s its nature.<\/p>\n<p>It just IS.<\/p>\n<p>So that\u2019s where I go, while I\u2019m sitting on my bed.<\/p>\n<p>Straight to the Being.<\/p>\n<p>Now I happen to really love forests, so maybe I\u2019ll go there, later on.<\/p>\n<p>And if I do, Being will be there too.<\/p>\n<p>And if I don\u2019t, well, you get the point.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Can it really be that simple?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>(Photo by @michael_g_krahn, for Unsplash)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My mind wants to be in a forest. I am actually sitting in my bed so it\u2019s obviously the wrong place. According to my mind. It quickly informs my body that this is definitely not ideal, that there\u2019s a discrepancy between This Now and the perfect That Now, and my body obediently follows. One minute [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":34813,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":""},"categories":[97,117,100,116,113,103,112],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34812"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34812"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34812\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34815,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34812\/revisions\/34815"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/34813"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34812"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34812"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34812"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}