{"id":31567,"date":"2021-05-12T10:18:36","date_gmt":"2021-05-12T10:18:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/?p=31567"},"modified":"2021-05-12T10:18:37","modified_gmt":"2021-05-12T10:18:37","slug":"why-i-start-with-the-end-goal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/2021\/05\/12\/why-i-start-with-the-end-goal\/","title":{"rendered":"Why I start with the end goal."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>People come to me to get their problems solved.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At least that\u2019s what they think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They come to me to find answers, and solutions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They want to fix their anxiety, their relationships, their careers, their drinking, their anger issues, their lack of purpose and passion, their bodies, their past, their attitude, their confidence, their sexlife, their colleagues, their neighbors, their depression or the whole world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At least, that\u2019s what they think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But it\u2019s not the real reason.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The real reason is that they believe (and hope) that fixing their problems, finding the answers, creating the changes, will deliver them peace of mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That it will make them feel sustainably, indestructibly, authentically good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What they REALLY want, is to feel free from the problems, and the burning questions that occupy their minds, and the doubts, and the worries, and the endless ideas of lack and incompetence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What they REALLY want, is<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>to feel free.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To feel free.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Freedom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s what they want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So that\u2019s where I take them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And the rest just follows.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>People come to me to get their problems solved. At least that\u2019s what they think. They come to me to find answers, and solutions. They want to fix their anxiety, their relationships, their careers, their drinking, their anger issues, their lack of purpose and passion, their bodies, their past, their attitude, their confidence, their sexlife, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31568,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":""},"categories":[99,97,96,117,100,116,113,103,112],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31567"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31567"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31567\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":31569,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31567\/revisions\/31569"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31568"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31567"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31567"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31567"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}