{"id":31279,"date":"2021-04-18T09:55:34","date_gmt":"2021-04-18T09:55:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/?p=31279"},"modified":"2021-04-18T11:37:48","modified_gmt":"2021-04-18T11:37:48","slug":"the-ultimate-way-of-coaching","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/2021\/04\/18\/the-ultimate-way-of-coaching\/","title":{"rendered":"The Ultimate Way of Coaching."},"content":{"rendered":"
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The Ultimate Way of Coaching.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Well (spoiler alert): there\u2019s no such thing.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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No specific way.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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No method.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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No magic trick.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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The ONLY thing that matters, is that your intervention helps people change their lives in a profound, positive way.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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The content of that is completely up for grabs.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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It should be whatever it is that makes it powerful and unforgettable.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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That results in tangible changes, in a richer experience of life, more autonomy and an inclination to enjoy life rather than hide from it.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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That makes it comfortably you.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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It doesn\u2019t matter if you talk constantly, or if you are silent all the time.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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It doesn\u2019t matter if you have a coach yourself (which seems to be the ultimate and non-negotiable requirement in the coaching world, a holy mantra that never really gets challenged).<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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It doesn\u2019t matter if you go upstream or downstream or no-stream, if you whisper or shout, if you talk about Sydney Banks or Little Red Riding Hood, angels or neurological paths.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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If you get the job done, if people can truly, genuinely say that your connection has helped them see things in new and helpful ways, then you\u2019re good to go.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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NO method, NO specific strategy, NO words are necessary and obligatory.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You can coach sitting on a rock or jumping up and down.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You can sing and dance or just stare at a client, silently.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You can tell them the truth or wait for insights to drop.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You can have 25 diplomas and certifications or none.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You can wear a suit or nothing at all (something that you might consider to mention before the first session, though).<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You can Zoom or Skype or phone or be SO close to them they can almost feel your eyebrows on their forehead.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You can serve or surf.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You can say \u2018it\u2019s never about me!\u2019 or you can think the exact opposite.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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And you can coach with a banana in your ear.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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It doesn\u2019t matter.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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It really doesn\u2019t.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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People ultimately don\u2019t give a shit about how you help them, as long as you do.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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As long as their lives get significantly better, and they find some magical momentum that will carry them past their old patterns.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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As long as they start to feel powerful and hopeful and joyful because of your conversations, and because of who realize they are.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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But don\u2019t take my word for this.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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See for yourself.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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It\u2019s the ultimate way.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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www.marnix.coach<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Ah, yes. The Ultimate Way of Coaching. Well (spoiler alert): there\u2019s no such thing. No specific way. No method. No magic trick. The ONLY thing that matters, is that your intervention helps people change their lives in a profound, positive way. The content of that is completely up for grabs. It should be whatever it […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31280,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":""},"categories":[99,97,96,117,100,116,113,103],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31279"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31279"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31279\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":31282,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31279\/revisions\/31282"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31280"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31279"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31279"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31279"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}