{"id":31007,"date":"2020-09-10T15:16:17","date_gmt":"2020-09-10T15:16:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/?p=31007"},"modified":"2020-09-10T16:15:10","modified_gmt":"2020-09-10T16:15:10","slug":"lucky-to-have-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/2020\/09\/10\/lucky-to-have-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Lucky to have You."},"content":{"rendered":"
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And then all of a sudden you realize:<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n
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\u2018People are lucky to work with me!\u2019<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You\u2019ve been a struggling coach or therapist or change worker or whatever for years, and you have been constantly fighting for clients and this ever elusive juicy (or even just healthy) revenue stream.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You\u2019ve played the money game (\u201cHOW MUCH is your fee?!\u201d) again and again and again.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You\u2019ve seen through the idea that a NO that follows your proposal is a NO to who you are (because it isn\u2019t).<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You\u2019ve hiked the Shit Woods more times than you care to remember.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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And one day it just dawns on you:<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\u2018I\u2019m giving this my all, I fucking LIVE this, and I don\u2019t really care about people who don\u2019t appreciate that and I wish them all the best anyway.\u2019<\/span><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n
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You no longer want to be docile or submissive or in a position of neediness.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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And you also don\u2019t feel the need to pretend you don\u2019t care.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You simply realize that it\u2019s a privilege for people to work with you.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Not because you\u2019re absolutely perfect and flawless and offer a guarantee for happiness and success, but because you are you and that\u2019s what you give them.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Completely.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Fully.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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No holds barred.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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People get the Whole You.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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The You that fell on his ass a million times and got up again, the You that struggled for all these roller coaster years, the You that wasn\u2019t afraid (or just refused to give in to the fear) to become the You it is right now.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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That\u2019s what you have to offer.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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You.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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And they are incredibly lucky to have that.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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—<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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(Photo by @claybanks, for Unsplash)<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

And then all of a sudden you realize: \u2018People are lucky to work with me!\u2019 You\u2019ve been a struggling coach or therapist or change worker or whatever for years, and you have been constantly fighting for clients and this ever elusive juicy (or even just healthy) revenue stream. You\u2019ve played the money game (\u201cHOW MUCH […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31008,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":""},"categories":[97,96,117,100,116,103],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31007"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31007"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31007\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":31012,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31007\/revisions\/31012"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31008"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31007"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31007"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31007"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}