{"id":30976,"date":"2020-08-08T09:33:06","date_gmt":"2020-08-08T09:33:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/?p=30976"},"modified":"2021-01-07T09:52:05","modified_gmt":"2021-01-07T09:52:05","slug":"learning-how-to-write-by-not-giving-a-shit-about-how-you-write","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/2020\/08\/08\/learning-how-to-write-by-not-giving-a-shit-about-how-you-write\/","title":{"rendered":"Learning how to write, by not giving a shit about how you write."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h4>\u2018Can you teach me how to write?\u2019<\/h4>\n<p>I\u2019ve been asked that question many times.<\/p>\n<p>In my advertising years, for example, a lot of clients wanted me to train their PR-teams, their management department or their help desk people, and teach them how to write compelling, fresh stuff.<\/p>\n<p>On Facebook and Twitter and LinkedIn, I\u2019ve been approached by dozens of (semi-)contacts about revealing my writing secrets and tricks.<\/p>\n<p>And I never did, but not because I didn\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the simple truth: I don\u2019t know why I write what I write and how I do it.<\/p>\n<p>I just sit down and write.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t break up the creative process in handsome, clever pieces that, when ingested, result in being able to write like me (and I think that shouldn\u2019t be the goal anyway).<\/p>\n<p>Writing is something I\u2019ve been doing for over thirty years, and it has become second nature to me.<\/p>\n<p>I really don\u2019t care about my writing anymore, I don\u2019t think about it, and that\u2019s why it is what it is.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s real, direct, unfiltered, unpolished, unapologetic.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s straight from the source, and that abstract quality is what makes it fresh and (so I\u2019ve heard) interesting.<\/p>\n<p>I just learned to get out of my own way and let it happen.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve become REALLY familiar with leaning back into flow and go WHEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s why there are thousands and thousands of people who can write way \u2018better\u2019 than I do, who are technically perfect and measure every precious word for hours and know everything about building up a story and use the rules about keeping people engaged and how to create a novel and all that stuff, but still don\u2019t seem to create interesting stories or articles.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to write stuff that feels alive, sparkling, exciting, you have to write from that place of plenty.<\/p>\n<p>Not from your head.<\/p>\n<p>You have to dip your proverbial fountain pen in the well of pure potential and splash whatever comes to mind on the blank canvas of possibility.<\/p>\n<p>Or something like that.<\/p>\n<p>But you have to learn to not give a fuck.<\/p>\n<p>And if you\u2019re interested in THAT, just let me know, because I\u2019m considering creating a little live course around it.<\/p>\n<p>Cool writing will be a result.<\/p>\n<p>Cool living might be a side-effect.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Sounds exciting? Feel free to let me know!<\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>(Photo by @artlasovsky, for Unsplash)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] \u2018Can you teach me how to write?\u2019 I\u2019ve been asked that question many times. In my advertising years, for example, a lot of clients wanted me to train their PR-teams, their management department or their help desk people, and teach them how to write compelling, fresh stuff. 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