We are always looking for the \u2018how\u2019.<\/p>\n
\u2018How do I quit drinking?\u2019<\/p>\n
\u2018How do I stop being scared?\u2019<\/p>\n
\u2018How do I know what to choose, and what not?\u2019<\/p>\n
\u2018How will I be when I take these steps?\u2019<\/p>\n
\u2018How can I be happy?\u2019<\/p>\n
There is not a single piece of action that works for everybody.<\/p>\n
There is nothing you can do to know for sure that you\u2019ll get what you want.<\/p>\n
Or want to get rid of.<\/p>\n
But it happens just the same.<\/p>\n
You wake up in the morning and deeply recognize the complete uselessness of numbing your days with alcohol or drugs or sex.<\/p>\n
So you quit, and take it from there.<\/p>\n
You get fed up with running from your fear, just like that, so you stop with a beating heart and discover that all the fear was only in your mind.<\/p>\n
You will choose anyway, sometimes with shitty results, but it doesn\u2019t really matter.<\/p>\n
You take steps and find out what they do for you, or what they don\u2019t.<\/p>\n
And then you take another step.<\/p>\n
Or you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n
Lying on the couch, staring at a crack in the ceiling, could be the biggest leap of all.<\/p>\n
You will be happy, because happiness will fight its way back into your life, whether you want it or not.<\/p>\n
How?<\/p>\n
You don\u2019t have to know.<\/p>\n
Living is how.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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