{"id":30584,"date":"2020-01-24T08:41:22","date_gmt":"2020-01-24T08:41:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/?p=30584"},"modified":"2020-01-24T08:41:22","modified_gmt":"2020-01-24T08:41:22","slug":"the-fun-of-change","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/2020\/01\/24\/the-fun-of-change\/","title":{"rendered":"The fun of change."},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Can we change whatever we want to change?<\/h4>\n<p>Or is everything just totally random, a spontaneous evolving, a creation without any direction?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been a fan of both ways of looking at life, alternately.<\/p>\n<p>There were times that I\u2019d gathered enough \u2018evidence\u2019 to follow one of these extremes for a while, only to run into a sturdy wall of fresh perspective and painful realizations, and to wake up to a whole new world of possibilities.<\/p>\n<p>I guess the fun of life is that you get to think whatever you want to.<\/p>\n<p>And, sure, many people will try to correct or oppose or fight you, but in the end nobody really knows.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no Universal Court of Truth.<\/p>\n<p>So we can play, and play, and play.<\/p>\n<p>I love to life within some kind of \u2018enlightened opportunism\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s something like the middle way, but not always.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s where paradoxes make total sense, and where you can feel both right and left without any problem.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I say I don\u2019t know, because that\u2019s basically true.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m sure I DO know, and that seems true in the moment.<\/p>\n<p>My steadiness is found in the shifts of life.<\/p>\n<p>My certainty is the result of my ever changing preferences.<\/p>\n<p>I like, REALLY like, to believe that I\u2019m here for a reason, to do and learn something.<\/p>\n<p>So that\u2019s what I do.<\/p>\n<p>I like to embrace the story of my life, the path, the journey, the lessons.<\/p>\n<p>I play my part with love and wonder and frustration and despair, and sometimes it looks like I changed things singlehandedly, and sometimes I try for weeks but nothing really happens.<\/p>\n<p>I guess anything can feel true.<\/p>\n<p>Left AND right, black AND white, light AND dark.<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t it amazing to just flow with all of it and change your mind in a heartbeat?<\/p>\n<p>Does it really matter what matters?<\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s totally up to you.<\/p>\n<p>Have a day!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Can we change whatever we want to change? Or is everything just totally random, a spontaneous evolving, a creation without any direction? I\u2019ve been a fan of both ways of looking at life, alternately. There were times that I\u2019d gathered enough \u2018evidence\u2019 to follow one of these extremes for a while, only to run into [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":30585,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":""},"categories":[97,117,100,116,113,103],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30584"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30584"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30584\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30586,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30584\/revisions\/30586"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30585"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30584"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30584"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marnix.nl\/homepage\/welkom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30584"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}